JstAGuy RL Husband to JstAGrl's blog: "Writings"

We don't care if you talk to other guys. We don't care if you're friends with other guys. But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off. It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there. We don't care if a guy calls you, but at 2 in the morning we do get a little concerned. Nothing is that important at 2 a.m. that it can't wait till the morning. Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it. Don't tell us we're wrong. We'll stop trying to convince you. The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence. Yeah, you can quote me. Don't be mad when we hold the door open. Take Advantage of the mood I'm in. let us pay for you! dont "feel bad" We enjoy doing it. It's expected. Smile and say "thank you." Kiss us when no one's watching. If you kiss us when you know somebody's looking, we'll be more impressed. You don't have to get dressed up for us. If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have or put on every kind of makeup you own. We like you for who you are and not what you are. honestly, i think a girl looks more beautiful when she's just in her pj's. or my tshirt and boxers, not all dolled up Don't take everything we say seriously. Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it. Don't get angry easily. Stop using magazines/media as your bible. Don't talk about how hot Bow Wow,Brad Pitt, or Chris Brown is in front of us. It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that. Whatever happened to the word "handsome"/"beautiful" I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with "Hey handsome!" instead of "Hey baby/ stud/ cutie/ sexy" or whatever else you can think of. On the other hand im not sayin i woulndnt like it ether ; ) Girls, I cannot stress this enough:if you aren't being treated right by a guy, dont't wait for him to change.ditch his sorry,disgrace to the male population self and find someone who will treat you with utter respect Someone who will honor your morals. Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest. Someone who will care for you even when you make mistakes. Someone who will love you, no matter how bad you make them feel. Someone who will stop what they're doing just to look you in the eyes....and say "i love you" ..and actually mean it. Give the nice guys a chance!!

These are just some things that I have been hearing in the music that I been listening to. So do what you want, listen to the playlist, they just make you think.....so......have fun!! Johnny Cash - HURT What have I become My sweetest friend Everyone I know goes away In the end And you could have it all My empire of dirt I will let you down I will make you hurt Avril Lavigne - I'm With You I'm looking for a place searching for a face is anybody here i know cause nothings going right and everythigns a mess and no one likes to be alone Isn't anyone tryin to find me? Won't somebody come take me home It's a damn cold night Trying to figure out this life Wont you take me by the hand take me somewhere new I dont know who you are but I... I'm with you I'm with you Gary Jules - Mad World I find it kinda funny I find it kinda sad The dreams in which I'm dying Are the best I've ever had I find it hard to tell you I find it hard to take When people run in circles It's a very, very mad world ... world Enlarge your world Mad world I Grieve - Peter Gabriel Its just the car that we ride in A home we reside in The face that we hide in The way we are tied in And life carries on and on and on and on Life carries on and on and on Did I dream this belief? Or did I believe this dream? Now I can find relief I grieve Ache - James Carrington The time that it took writing words for my book seems to have broken in half The gate that i shut last time i got hurt seems to have opened itself Oh the world its spinning now its trying to catch me up and tell me to appreciate the here and now I'm sorry but i meant to say many things along the way so this ones for you Have I told you I ache Have I told you I ache Have I told you I ache for you? Have I told you I ache Have I told you I ache/and I hope its not too late Have I told you I ache/Can I hold you and ache for you? It Ends Tonight - All American Rejects Now I'm on my own side It's better than being on your side It's my fault when your blind It's better that I see it through your eyes All these thoughts locked inside Now you're the first to know When darkness turns to light It ends tonight, It ends tonight. Just a little insight will make this right It's too late to fight It ends tonight, It ends tonight.

Some of these I wrote, some of these I found I believe That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other. And just because they don't argue, it doesn't mean they do. I believe That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change. I believe That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that. I believe That true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love. I believe That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life. I believe That it's taking me a long time to become the person I want to be. I believe That you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them. I believe That you can keep going long after you think You can't. I believe That we are responsible for what we do, No matter how we feel. I believe That either you control your attitude or it controls you. I believe That heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences. I believe That money is a lousy way of keeping score. I believe That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time. I believe That sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up. I believe That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel. I believe That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated. I believe That it isn't always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself. I believe That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief. I believe That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.. I believe That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life, Forever. I believe Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different. I believe That your life can be changed in a matter of hours by people who don't even know you. I believe That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help. I believe That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being. I believe That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon. I believe That what lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us. I believe That love will find you when you least expect it I believe That in your darkest hours is when you realize your own inner strengths I believe No matter how hard you try, you're not going to forget it all in the end