A relationship is like a rope. You on one end, you're significant other on the other end. The goal is to work together to keep the rope tight. Now, there is nothing wrong for one of you to work a little extra now and then to keep the rope tight. That shows committment. But it isn't fair for one of you to be holding both ends of the rope while the other doesn't do a thing. If that is what is going on, get out. You are being taken advantage of and deserve someone who is willing to do their fair share. If you are the one letting the other person hold both ends of the rope, shame on you. This person loves you enough to do the work of both of you to keep the relationship in tact and you just sit there and let them. At least have the common decency to end the relationship. Just my .02 worth.