Okay, after about the thousandth time of reading/hearing about situations where somebody wanted to "confront" somebody else about something (you all know what I'm talking about, "friend is lying" or "sister is cheating" that sort of thing) I started to realize something. Most of the people saying things like "I should confront them" or "I want to confront them" are the same people who complain about "drama."
You have too much "drama" in your life? Well try not putting your nose in other peoples' business. There is no need to confront somebody on something that is none of your business and sometimes there is no need to constantly point out when people do things you don't like. And yes, that counts even if it "makes you feel really bad."
Trust me people, you know your friends and family well enough. You should know when "confronting them" will cause more problems than it solves so why not keep it to yourself?
Does anybody else agree with me?
