Cheating is the #1 Mistake That Ends Relationships, What Are The Rest?
Article by: CheaterVille.com
April 27, 2012
Cheating is the #1 Mistake That Ends Relationships, What Are The Rest?
Ever feel like maintaining a good relationship is harder than everyone makes it seem? There should be a yearlong class in High School that guys and girls take to learn the fundamentals of a good relationship. But there wasn’t, so here we are.
According to an article written by Heather at All Women Stalk, there are ten classic mistakes that we make that may cause our relationships to fail. Not surprisingly, cheating is rated #1. See these faults that are listed and ask yourself if you making any of these mistakes in your current relationship?
1. CHEATING
The number one mistakes that end relationships is cheating. If someone cheats on you, most likely, you are not going to be with that person any longer. This is the most common mistake that people break up, but it’s not the only mistake!
2. NO COMMUNICATION
When you’re in a relationship, you have to actually talk to the person that you are in a relationship with. Bottling up feelings and even pushing everything on down isn’t the greatest idea. Typically this leads to resentment and leads to a huge, blow out fight. If you’re looking to not repeat this mistake that ends relationships, make sure you communicate with your partner!
3. LACK OF INTIMACY
Now, I am not just talking about sex, but I am talking about a true connection. You have to not just communicate with your partner, but you have to connect with them and have some fun with them. If you aren’t having that, why are you in a relationship?
4. NOT ACKNOWLEDGING ONE ANOTHER
Sometimes, when you really are deep in the midst of a bad relationship, you don’t even acknowledge one another. You basically are just existing together, without any real communication. If you live together, it’s almost like you are roommates instead of in a relationship.
5. NOT LISTENING
This goes hand-in-hand with no communication: you aren’t listening to one another. If you aren’t listening then you truly aren’t understanding what your partner needs. If you’re in a relationship, you need to make sure that you are listening to your partner! This is absolutely one of the most common mistakes that ends relationships super easily!
6. JEALOUSY
Oh jealousy, I know you very well. I fully admit that I’m a jealous person, but I do not let my jealousy rule me. A lot of relationships end because the boyfriend or girlfriend gets jealous for no reason at all and is obsessive about it. If you trust your partner, let them do whatever they want.
7. DISTRUST
And that leads us into distrust. Typically, there is a reason why you distrust your partner, why the trust was broken in the first place. Once you fix that, this distrust typically can be repaired, but only if you resolve the problem.
8. PARANOIA
Are you paranoid that your partner is going to break up with you? Are you paranoid that you are going to get left? This is one of the common mistakes that ends relationships all of the time because then the partner that is not paranoid feels pressured to stay, instead of wanting to stay.
9. SNOOPING
Just because you are with someone doesn’t mean that you have a right to go through every single thing that they own. Snooping is a very common mistake that ends relationships because who wants their things gone through all of the time? So ladies, back off his phone, his bedroom and his car and trust him!
10. FLIRTING
Finally, harmless, small little flirting with a co-worker or even just a random girl can actually end a relationship as well. Nobody likes to be made jealous on purpose and if your guy is constantly flirting up other girls, it might be a sign for something else.
There are tons of different mistakes that ends relationships that happen every single day. Who knows, maybe you’re making some of these mistakes that ends relationships right now and you are surviving them! So ask yourself, how many mistakes like this have you committed?
Source: http://love.allwomenstalk.com/classic-mistakes-that-end-relationships/
By Laura Schaefer
Laura Schaefer is the author of The Teashop Girls and The Secret Ingredient, two novels for young readers. For the other side of the story, read Top 5 things that drive men crazy.
Men love women. They do. But that doesn’t mean women don’t drive them crazy. Even after oceans of ink have been spilled about how the two sexes can better understand and accept each other, women still find ways to annoy men — and vice versa. Here are the top five ways she’s making you crazy right now. Ladies, are you guilty of any of these irritating behaviors?
1. Game-playing/manufacturing drama. There are lots of ways to create drama and excitement in a relationship, but men aren’t usually fans — unless said excitement involves clothing removal. “Asking too much too soon about his past relationships” is one way women drive men nuts and create drama, says Dr. Linda R. Young, Ph.D., a psychologist and relationship coach who blogs forPsychology Today. Making him late by taking too long to get ready is another. Getting irrationally jealous over platonic friends or running hot, then cold with no explanation are just a few more.
Whether the drama is minor or significant, men would rather skip it. “I think these [behaviors] exist because men and women don’t have the skills to live beyond the ‘game-playing’ they learned as adolescents, which is perpetuated by the media,” explains Marni Battista, expert dating coach and founder of DatingWithDignity.com. “It takes an entire toolkit of advanced skills to create truly win-win situations in relationships. A person who doesn’t have these skills will always go to those old ‘default’ tendencies to fill the void.” And thus, drama is born.
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