3.The Player-The player suffers from low self-esteem & needs the companionship of many different women to feel good about himself .Some men live to conquer women.They need to define themselves as an attractive,irresistable ladies man to feel worthwile.Their self-esteem is so poor that they always need to be bolstered.One of the ways for them to feel bolstered is by attracting a woman & then winning her over sexually.After the woman submits,he disappears.