Ok women, here is the deal. You come from bad relationships in the past and find a good guy and push him away? Why? Don't you want to be happy? Why are you afraid to be happy for once in your life? I hear women say all the time, " I want a decent, good man". Hello, wake up.... That man is probably right under your nose if you would just open your eyes. You know, generally the good guys are the ones that are quiet, they'll say hi and that is about it. They might have short small conversations with you every now and then. Would you like to know the reason why us 'good guys' are quiet? Its because we are tired of getting shot down. So the next time you say to yourself that you want a good man, open your eyes because I can almost promise you that there is a 'good guy' sitting around thinking about how he wished you would give him half a chance to make you happy.