i'm confused and upset and not really sure what to do. i have only talked to my dad a few times in 34 years then out of the blue in the middle of november he starts calling me. He wants to give me money for the things i need. yes i need the money what with me being a single mother of 2 young daughters. i have just moved a month and a half ago from ohio to illinois with nothing but my daughters our clothes and my car i have a part time job and get child support but everything is still tight financially i am determined to make a better life for my daughters and myself. i may need the money but i donkt feel right taking it considering i would've rather had a father growing up everyone tells me this is my fathers way of making amends but i don't think there is any amount of money that could fill the hole in my heart that being without a father has created i am a good person and have forgiven my father for his absence but i still have trust issues what should i do?