I'm gettin sick of this shit. Post in long term woman for woman relationships and get 5 guys respondin who all are "sorry" after you point out that they're not female LESBIAN DOESN'T MEAN I LIKE GURLS TO TURN YOU ON! GET THAT THRU YOUR THICK IGNORANT PENIS-ADDLED BRAINS! If not the guys you get the "bisexual" gurls. The gurls who have never been wit a gurl before, refer to themselves as lesbians and then tell you bout the guy they've been wit for 5years (who so happens to just like to watch). I'm also tired of gettin the strait chicks. Why the fuck reply to my ad which is geared toward friendship turnin into more IF YOU'RE NOT FUCKIN GAY. THAT'S WHAT PLATONIC RELATIONSHIPS ARE. I'm sick of strait chicks. Most of the females I know are strait. Women in general I'm just sick of. One chick in particular asked to meet. I turned down that first weekend. Hey. I'd rather get to know a peron thru text and emails than tryta fumble wit what to say to get to know them in a bar settin (cause that's where everyone wants to meet or at their house *raises eyebrow*). Well the next week, I was gettin up the courage to ask her out for the followin Sunday. Mentioned what I was doin friday and she suggests. After she's done doin what she's gotta do we could meet up. I said ok and she she cancelled 2hrs before. I just went home. Told her the next day I was goin to meet a friend the next day for sushi and bowlin. I'm on the train to LI and she calls me askin what I'm doin. I remind her of what I said the nite before and said I'd call her when I got back to the city. I did call and after a couple texts. She said she should be done in 2hrs wit what she was doin and I should go home and she'd call. That was at 6:30... didn't hear from her til 11pm. Then didn't hear from her for 3 days. See the thing that really irks me is
1. People don't remember a thing you tell them unless it's about them (basically if you have plans and inform someone, they will forget in 5mins)
2. People think it's ok to drop plans last minute and when you get miffed, they shrug and say don't care, don't have the time to be bothered
3. People will make you work around there schedule. Say you make plans 3 weeks in advance. The day of your event, you get calls and texts to do somethin. When you explain you have plans, they try to guilt you into the fact "we never hang anymore" Who's fuck fault is that?
4. Unless you are datin someone, you don't mean shit to them. And this will never change. Talked about it before. No matter how many times you're there for someone, as soon as they start datin a person, you don't exist and they have no time for you. Let that person end the relationship and all then you become visible again.
Is it really that hard to find trustworthy women who won't place you on a shelf til it's in their best convenience to remember you're there?
