Jayaraych's blog: "Research/Self Help"

HOW MANY OF THE FOLLOWING ATTITUDES AND BEHAVIORS ARE PRESENT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS??? 1. COMMUNICATION is open and SPONTANEOUS (including LISTENING) 2. RULES/BOUNDARIES are clear and explicit, yet allows flexibility 3. INDIVIDUALITY, FREEDOM, and PERSONAL IDENTITY is ENHANCED!!!! 4. Each enjoys doing things for SELF, as well as for the OTHER 5. PLAY, HUMOR, and HAVING FUN is common place 6. Each does not attempt to "FIX" or control the other 7. ACCEPTANCE of self and other (for REAL selves) 8. ASSERTIVENESS: feelings and needs are expressed 9. HUMILITY: able to let go of need to "BE RIGHT" 10.. SELF-CONFIDENCE and SECURITY in own worth 11. CONFLICT is faced directly and resolved 12. OPENNESS to constructive feedback 13. EACH is trustful of the other 14. BALANCE of giving and receiving 15. NEGOTIATIONS are fair and democratic 16. TOLERANCE: forgiveness of self and others 17. Mistakes are accepted and LEARNED from 18. WILLINGNESS TO TAKE RISKS AND BE VULNERABLE!!!!!!!!!!! 19. Other meaningful relationships and interests exist 20. Each can enjoy being ALONE and PRIVACY is respected! 21. PERSONAL GROWTH, CHANGE and EXPLORATION is encouraged 22. CONTINUITY and CONSISTENCY is present in the Commitment 23. BALANCE of oneness (closeness) and SEPARATION from each other 24. RESPONSIBILITY for own behaviors and happiness (NOT BLAMING OTHER). All comments are welcomed and encouraged on this blog and others as well.