i love when adults use the word 'accident'
cuz...i suppose...and i also guess im in the minority here...that i dun believe in 'accidents' once a person hits adulthood.
i believe in...
bad judgement calls
stupidity
and not giving a shit what the repricussions are.
stupid people are my favorite kind of people.
they provide me with hours and hours of entertainment.
if only for the simple fact...they dont know they're stupid.
and its always the stupid people that lie.
and of course...since they're stupid...they dont know how easy it is for someone to see thru their shoddily woven web.
they think if they use simple words like 'accident' it absolves them of all hurt they've inflicted.
maybe such a thing works if the other person in question is stupid as well...and for that...well i can only pity them...and their entire existence.
when someone starts talking to someone else...
they immediately classify them.
sometimes they go under the tab 'friend'...
sometimes 'acquaintance'
sometimes 'possibility'
sometimes 'FWB'
and those are the simple classifications...
the others...well it takes a little bit of time to put them in a more detailed tab.
sometimes days...
sometimes weeks...
but eventually everyone is in their own little classification...
so in a logical persons book
an intelligent persons book
saying something was an 'accident'
or even my personal favorite 'things have changed'
is a blatant...lie.
things might have changed on their end...
but on your end?
that person was in a neat little classification already...
and stupidity..being what it is...
thought they could hide such a classification under a nice little blanket.
which regrettably not everyone can see thru.
my one fail-safe has always been this:
"when someone easily discards people like they would discard their trash...be wary...for you...shall be next"
*nod*
