free will is the ultimate gift, u can choose to let someone in or not but sooner or later it (life) will all be over!!! Everything was made to be broken so that it can be put back together again!!! Life is great even in pain and suffering cause emotions r a beautifull and gorgoues in everyway, if your emotionless then life isnt worth living and you begin to hate everything and everyone not knowing if its gunna hurt u or not but life is pain and pleasure!!! Love is Pain cause if you love someone and ur with them then ur happy and feel safe but then they r gone even for a moment then u feel alone and lost in pain!!! Every emotion can be connected and be understud if u quit looking for anwser then it will just come to you like it came to me today!!! Life is important and if ur affraid of pain then ur affraid of living...cause without pain there would be no happiness and without pain then you wouldnt know if u truly existed or not!!! Many of you may never understand what Im talking about someday U might see it, U cant see it in something or find it, it just happens to you and you know from then on that LIFE CAN BE GREAT IF U TRULY WANT IT TO BE!!!!