Iv'e heard it said it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all...It makes me wonder if the the person who made that statement loved with all they had.....for my self i know what it is like to love with all i have , and then loose it, the hardest part isnt the healling, but rather putting the pieces of your life back to gether...it's like a jigsaw puzzel and each piece represents a piece of your life...for most of us putting the puzzle together we put the frame together first, then you fill in the picture, as each piece is put into place, so does our lives. it paits a story of who we are....but unlike the puzzle, filling in the pieces is not easy, and some times a few are missing, those are the ones that count the most,,,with out them we are not whole. but just an outer shell of what we truley are...loosing a true love does more to us than just hurts us, it leaves us empty, like the frame of the picture a mear shell...