If you're a guy and you're not going to rate and fan me 1st then I'm probably not going to add you as a friend
Generally, guys want to friend me for different reasons but the main ones are (1) I always wanted to be with a guy and like your pix so may I please suck your cock or (2) because they want to make it look like we're real friends to make my girlfriends think they're cool
I list myself as bisexual but I do prefer women but I also like threesomes and moresomes and in those situations I enjoy seeing naked men and their cock(s) getting excited with women. I also like to see women with men and enjoy doing c2c with couples. But just watching a guy stroking his cock or him just watching me really does nothing for me unless there are women present or in some manner involved. There may be exceptions like if the men are really hot and maybe having an orgy or something; but generally speaking I'm really not looking to have single men as friends unless there is something about them beyond sexuality and in almost all social networking situations this is seldom the case, particularly where they have nothing to say and/or have no apparent purpose in wanting to be friends
So if you're a guy or you see a guy as my friend, there's either (a) something special about them (b) there is some networking purpose like they're owner or affiliated with a lounge (3) they're a couple (4) a girl friend told me to add them and I adore her enough to do whatever she tells me to do or (5) a really hot woman/gf wants me to see her with him and wants me to be friends with a guy she fucks or wants to fuck because it turns her on
I get into that because in my view women ought to be just as free as men and men ought not get jealous about it and shouldn't try to own or possess women, just let them be free - the sex is better that way too.
O and if you are Gay, a tranny or a CD, you're more than welcome to be friends just say so on the FR.