You know if you're going to cheat or lie you should at least be smart enough not to get caught. If you're willing to be unfaithful then should you really be in the relationship in the first place. I won't say temptation isn't always there but shouldn't you be able to say no. If I'm no longer good enough then why are you here? I don't get it. If this was how you wanted things then why did you ask for a closed relationship in the first place. You had the options to go elsewhere. I'll tell you why it's because you want your cake and you want to eat it to. You want me at home like a happy little housewife while you do as you please. Well I'm finished with that role. I could feel bad about myself or blame myself but I won't. You're as replaceable as the guy before you. If its my weight thats the problem then get the fuck out. I like me and I don't need your approval. If you think that I will be lost with out you then you are sadly mistaken. It's not like I didn't have options. Unlike you I chose not to exercise them. (and there are definitely a few I would have loved to exercise) Anyways the point is if you want to screw around go ahead but at least be smart enough to get it past me. I don't exactly enjoy the humiliation. I know you are going to say that this was humiliating for me to put this out in such a public way but hell everyone else local knows so maybe you need the humiliation. I'm finished with your games. I hope you realize exactly what you have just gotten yourself into.