when I first had my kids, I was so happy then when they got to the teen age stage and didn't want to go to school and got me into trouble, I thought, man i can't wait til they grow up and move out. but guess what? that time has came and quick and i found out that no matter how much hell you think they put you through, you wish they was still around, I have empty nest syndrome really bad, I miss my kids so bad. it hurts and makes me depressed. they live in different cities and when they get sick or hurt i can't be there to hold them or talk to them.I was so proud to talk about my kids but now anymore when i try to talk about them, all i can do is cry. can you love your kids to much? cause i think I do. My daughter is gonna be a mother in oct and im so happy for her.she says she wasn't gonna have kids til she was 30. but now she is 20 and thats when i had her so anyway she hasn't picked a name out yet but she has plenty of time to do that.