i know people dont care what i have tosay but im going to say what i got to say anyway. well im not ignoring my urges to cut but im dealing with it when it araises. i hate when you get into a fight with some one and they though shit back in your face...thanks you mz for that one...she may demand respect but i wont give her any...but peoples words dont hurt me anymore...im going to stop the cycle of abuse..