THE BATTERER MAY LIKE TO THROW THE WOMAN DOWN AND HOLD HER DURING SEX. HE MAY WANT TO ACT OUT SEXUAL FANTASIES IN WHICH THE WOMAN IS HELPLESS. HE MAY SHOW LITTLE CONCERN ABOUT WHETER THE WOMAN WANTS TO HAVE SEX OR USE SULKING OR ANGER TO MANIPULATE HER INTO COMPLIANCE. HE MAY START HAVING SEX WITH THE WOMAN WHILE SHE IS SLEEPING OR DEMAND SEX WHEN SHE IS ILL OR TIRED.