Alright, we have all had them, we have all been treated like shit at some point or another and everyone can agree with this. We have ALL been with a trainwreck or a few to boot. So lets laugh and giggle at the truths we are about to see. LET US BEGIN THE LONG AWAITED:
RANT TIME! Episode 2: WOO WOO! Trainwreck Relationships!
So we can all agree that we have at one point or another been in a shitty ass relationship. A trainwreck if you will. Sometimes so bad that, well just imagine a train on the tracks not moving and somehow, this train manages to derail and smash into a wall....without even once starting to move....yeah we have had relationships like that. We'll I am quite sure this list I am going to make may be quite familiar in scenario to a lot of persons who read this about why, these trainwrecks happen.
1. Your person does not communicate or express their feelings.
1a. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU?! YOU HAVE TO FUCKING TALK ABOUT WHATS ON YOUR MIND WITH YOUR MATE IN ORDER TO WORK OUT YOUR PROBLEMS. IF YOU FEEL INSECURE OR LIKE YOU ARE NOT BEING TREATED RIGHT, FUCKING SAY SOMETHING.
2. Your person feels that expressing themselves is a burden upon the relationship.
2a. I have only one thing to say about that: ANYONE WHO FUCKING THINKS THAT IS RETARDED! EXPRESSION OF EMOTION IS QUITE IMPORTANT TO A RELATIOSHIP. Yea! Lets fucking act like nothing is ever wrong and pretend like ignorace will make everything work.
3. Cheating on your person or getting cheated on by your person.
3a. OK, This one pisses me off, we have at one point or another been at this point where this scenario may have happened. If you are not happy with your relationship, then FUCKING BREAK UP AND GO OUT WITH THE PERSON YOU WANNA CHEAT WITH! It saves A LOT OF heartbreak, drama and more. And if you can't deal with any relationships, JUST BE A FUCKING PLAYER, at least you can be grimy and fuck as many people as you want that way.
4. Denying yourself or your person denying aspects about yourself.
4a. For instance, say you are not a virgin, DON'T FUCKING DENY IT! ONCE YOU ARE NOT A VIRGIN, THAT'S IT, YOUR NOT A VIRGIN! Or for instance, if you cheated on someone, don't deny, it unless you really haven't. Here is another scenario: If you met someone and you had a certain personality about you when you met them that really attracted them, don't fucking change your personality and slut it up/man whore it up so you can make fucking friends, that is so fucking lame, but then again, SOMETIMES IT CAN'T BE HELPED! :-D
5. Respect your mate.
5a. REAL FUCKING SIMPLE TARDS! If you are dating someone, dont be grinding on other guys/girls at the club when you are with your girl/guy. Other scenarios would include, dressing like a slut when you go out with your b/f (girls), trying to be a fucking casanova even when you girl is right there (guys) and simply being honest.
6. KEEPING FUCKING SECRETS!
6a. There is NO fucking reason to keep secrets in a relationship. When you keep secrets you create a sense of insecurity for your partners, morons. And keeping secrets also means that SHADY ASS BUSINESS can be going on. Obviously if you are keeping a secret from your mate, you have something to hide, such as seeing a "friend" who is more than a "friend" (you know, those "friends" who are the opposite gender and "have always been my best friend). DON'T KEEP FUCKING SECRETS!
Man there are so many issues that create trainwreck relationships, that I don't really feel like typing more at the moment, so I am just going to leave ya all with a To Be Continuted.....PEACE, for now!
