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Ok. I'm a bit pissy so bare with me. This is a rant. 100%
Now explaine to me, if you supossedly care about the woman your dating, why you visit her once, MAYBE twice a week?
I've been dating my best of 5 years for the past month and 2 weeks. It started fun don't get me wrong. But heres the issue. I see him twice a week if I'm lucky. Now I wouldn't have a problem if it was just that. My guy works 5 days a week. Ok I can under stand that. but get out at 930 pm. doesnt need to be at work usually till 930 am, and in some cases I found out, until 2 pm. Instead of driving 15-20 min for a home cooked meal, a back and foot rub, and sx, he plays poker. EVERY NIGHT. I mean really? I understand he wants to make a career out of it. Like tonight. He got out at 7pm. 9 30 if he stayed late (I dont know any more) I took the night off for my band and for him. Rather then come over he played poker. Doesn't have work until noon. Comes over at 12. Takes a shower. Goes to sleep. Not even a good night kiss. Now I understand working hard. I work hard myself. And I work nights. But where ever he wants to come over and tells me the day before, I set myself up to change my sleep shedual to spend time with him. He doesn't even do that for me. He has a salary job and LOTS of vaccation time. But wont take time off, and I'm cool with that. But, if you don't want to spend time with me and would rather play poker. Well that I'm not cool with. He has taken time off to go to the casino's to play poker. Doesn't want me to go with. Wont take me with him to any poker games. I can play, and I play well. I'm thinking as to wether or not this relationship is worth it. I pan on talking to him and giving him a couple months (at most) but if I have to I will move on. I can't wait forever on someone. No I'm not old, but I get fed up easy. If you want to be with me, show me you want to be with me. I mean really. He turns down sex. SEX OF ALL THINGS!!!! How many girls want sex more then 3-6 times a day? I go all day sometimes. With him its once, maybe twice then I'm told ot leave him alone, he rolls over and goes to sleep. Today I don't even get any. He just ate, showered, went to sleep after playing poker all night. We hang out mondays to go mini golfing with his friend and it turns into a 10& 5 game (10 for winning 5 for every hole in one you get) granted he wins alot, but its supposed to be our time together. Instead I get to keep score. I'm feeling a little negelcted.
