How ironic is this? My x-husband and I got married on Sept 13th 2002 and or divorce was official Sept 13th 2007.
I was 5 months pregnant when we got married. It was not because we were expecting a child that we got married but that is what sped things along. We planned our son, but in away maybe we should of got married and then planned on having our son! Does not matter the sequence we were very happy! At least I thought we were.
A little over a year after we got married I came home from work. Did the whole family thing and then put my son down for the night. Went to spend some time with my husband and our of the blue he asked for a divorce. I was in shock and amazement. Here we are barely married over a year, a week before Christmas and a month before our son was to turn 1 years old. I was in total shock. I began crying and asked if we could go to counseling, what can I do to fix this and so forth. Thinking it was all my fault. Nothing was good to him and that was it. It was over and my who world came crumbling down.
Took some time to get over, and at times I am still not fully over it, but am glad that it is finally over! I found out quite a bit of stuff that he did while we were married and that made it easier for me to realize this is the best thing. I will finish this later, have some things to do!
To be cont......