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In my travels all over the web, I come across many comments and blogs by women who obviously are not deep thinkers, ranting about how men are cheaters, dogs, perverts, etc. Usually they generalize men negatively as less moral or virtuous than the female gender. And to me, this is as derogatory as racism . One of the more common posts I encounter is the inversion of the one I have edited below in defense of us men...
Before you profile and bash every man that you have ever chosen, think about how while youre doing so, another woman is showing men respect by not lumping them all into a giant turd ball. While youre creating problems, another woman is humble and patient enough to listen. While youre too busy "not needing a man, but wanting one", The real women are making time for men. While youre making him wait for affection, while you stroke your ego, other ladies are workin their sexy, getting him to smile and spend. While you cant decide who, what or how many men you want attention from, Other women who are focused, have already figured that out. Just sayin it for real, from the side of straight men.
To men who are seeking sex without comittment: Be an honest man. It's really not hard if you have self-respect and you do think from the top down instead of from your penis when you see a sexy hot babe. But guess what? There are more coming down the road. Not to demean women, but I'm just pointing out that you dont have to trick anyone to get what you want. Just tell her up front that you are not interested in being a boyfriend, but that you do find her extremely attractive and you would love to have sex with her someday. Now what is the worst that might happen? You get slapped? Nah, not if she knows the law. Or she might just roll her eyes and walk away. But maybe she is mature and will politely decline. So now all youre left with is to move on to another. It might take a day, a week or longer, depending on how well you assert yourself, but I can promise that rejection is not fatal. The more it happens, the stronger you become. And women want sex just as much as you. They too, are lonely for affection. But they tend to be vague about it. Just overlook that and believe in yourself. Happy hunting!
