I did not choose to be a transmale. I was born this way. I been on dates but they ended up bad. Most. People think I. Both have a. breasts & penis & want to fuk me. Gay men hate me because I am a fake man. I am on serveral sites & belong to 2 metup groups but that doesn't seem to work at all. I am very. Friendly, caring , great sense of humor & honest. Is being a transmale wrong ?