Hey guys! I just was checkin out some profiles and see a lot of BF/GF things goin on. (just to let you know you might be deleted if we don't have anything to talk about and I'm just on your list for headspace). Anyway, I think it's important to let you know where I stand on the issue.
I never been in a relationship, never considered my self having a girlfriend. I believe that the only true and fullfilling relationships are friendships and matrimony. The are the only lasting relationships in life.
Let me break it down. If you've had more than 1 person as a bf or gf, than you have never found true love and companionship. If you're not married to that person than they aren't really yours and then you want to get mad when you get cheated on. Let me tell you this, if you haven't taken that step to get married than you really have no control over their actions.
The only honored relationship is marriage in life, the Lord, and in law. If I'm wrong let me know.
Don't try to say that if that person is the one I love then we should be bf/gf. No, they're your friend. Hence the nam boyfriend and girfriend.
So be real about it if you're fucking you're fuck buddies or friends with benefits if there's a mutual and lasting love there then get married make it official. But, don't say oh, well my 2nd boyfriend did this and I'm so in love with my boyfriend. It's notreally smart.
Anytime I talk about such things with my friends I let them know to do their homework on their potential mate, because you never know what they may be hiding from you just to get with you. Anytime, you think you have the right person pegged as a soulmate, make sure you know what is what. Make sure you won't get tired of that person. make sure you won't cheat, know what you're getting into.
Realest
