So I'm the girl that no one thought would ever get married again... Even myself, the idea of it actually makes my skin crawl at times. It's a piece of paper, nothing esle. If the love, and trust are there why is the whole wedding needed? I found it pointless for the last few years. But I can't keep putting Dave and his wishes off. So in a very short 23 days I'll be taking the plunge again and going forward with him, mainly for him and our children. don't get me wrong I LOVE living in SIN, it's just sometimes one must make a sacrifice for the ones they love, and for me a wedding and marriage is the biggest one I can personally take. My thoughts used to be 'been there done that' I don't need it ever again. But I guess somewhere I evolved and put 4 other people ahead of myself. So wish me luck in not becoming a bridezilla.