and we have lists being compiled because (in some cases) a friend of a friend told a friend, and people leaving the site eventually because people found their name and their link on the list, followed it, and started the CT-version (or just, well...) harrassing.
This isn't "our site! Get lost, you!". So long as people are following the rules, it's everyone's site. Have a misunderstanding about definitions or rules, there are way too many other ways to handle them.
