why is it so hard to live with a man you hate and still keep going? stress has over ruled my life and i hate it.i feel traped and i am ready to leave.i am getting ready to leave but i can,t tell him.he has all ready told me he would kill himself if i go with the kids and he is always angry over something.i plan on leaving when he leaves for work so things don,t get out of hand.some may say that it is wrong to leave him behind his back........what do you think? i say i am doing this to keep from haveing a bad situation from getting worse..