Well, I've decided to stop letting people dictate who I am and what I can do. I have a friend...well, ex-boyfriend if you will, who thinks he can still tell me how to dress, how to do my hair, who I can talk to, and stuff like that. He has no right to say anthing about me as I am no longer with him for that particular reason. But I'm also easily offended I think. I take things people say to heart and it hurts. That's what I need to change about myself and I'm slowly working on that.....