SOmetimes I think that people in relationships neeed to take a good look at the way they treat the one they supposedly "LOVE"...If they did, maybe they would see they do not treat as though they do... As I have gotten older, iI have seen so many claims of people saying they honestly love someone, yet not bat an eye to lie, sheat or disregard their felings. They may not physically abuse them and the mental abuse may not even show...but the mind games some play with their partner sure take its toll. I have know people, both men a nd women who will never trust and believe in anyone completely again , because of this. Little tiny digs, rejections, lies, inconistencies, and fault-finding takes its toll on the most secure people at times... This, I think happens because they believe the person cares...therfore they would not hurt them ..they LOVE them...That word is thrown around so much and so easily that it should have come to mean less and less...BUT yet, on a daily basis you see heart ache and heart break done because of the LOVZE someone has claimed, just to get what they want. And in all honesty...some of those people belive they they do "LOVE" that person..until an event or situation comes up and they disregard the love they claimed. The grass seeemed to be greener on the other side and but if it isn't it always pays to keep your options open...Iwonder if it is all worht it in the end ..when things go back to the way it was.
