People who are bored with nothing to do find themselves reflecting on their own personal flaws and imperfections and turn in desperation to some type of comfort. In this instance, it is projection. This occurs when people take something they don't like about themselves or something that they have done wrong and project it onto another person:
"Look--look LOOK! Over there! They're doing this! oooh! I mean, I am, too,
but look at them!!!"
It is a convenient way to avoid admitting that you. hate. yourself.
But, I'll tell you now that if you choose--and, yes, it is a choice--not to love yourself, then you can not love anybody else.
Period.
Another thing worth noting is that at night, when you lie awake waiting for sleep, you are left with nothing to think about but what you've done to either help or harm your fellow man.
It is absolutely wrong to take out your personal disgust with yourself on other people. Deal with your own problems, and just leave the other people alone. If you can't or won't help someone else, don't make the situation worse by bringing them down any further.
There comes a time when we all have to grow up.
Why not make it today?
