Virgos are slow to warm up, which may cause them to seem cool and aloof initially, but for those who manage to break through this barrier, Virgos are often extremely sexual. Virgos need to trust their partners before they can really open up sexually, and this can take a while. Many Virgos develop a high level of technical expertise in their youth but take longer to develop the capacity for spontaneous passion. This is one of the signs that improves with age, however, and older Virgos are generally not only more sexual but often maintain a high level of fitness and a youthful look well into middle age. Virgos are the choosiest sign of the zodiac and have a variety of intangibles that turn them on, the strongest of which seem to be intellectual prowess, reliability, helpfulness, and assertiveness. Virgos are very analytical and live in their minds. A person who can turn a Virgo on mentally has a much better shot of turning him or her on sexually. Once a Virgo is turned on, he or she becomes very intensely sexual and many Virgos are surprisingly open minded and experimental and sometimes even a bit kinky when it comes to what they will try. Virgos are often turned on by partners who are assertive or perhaps even a bit dominant in bed, though this will likely not appeal to them so much outside of the bedroom, where they prefer an egalitarian relationship. Anyone who mistreats a Virgo generally doesn’t get another sexual chance, as once this sign is turned off a person, it stays turned off and it is unlikely that anything the other person does or says will change that. Virgos are often emotionally detached from the sexual act, which allows many of them to engage in sex purely for the enjoyment or experience; they don’t need a relationship to have sex, though they usually prefer one if they can find the right partner. If a partner proves disappointing in other areas of life, practical Virgos are quite capable of walking away from them without a backward glance but when a partner is pleasing, Virgos are inclined to try almost anything. Virgos are also inclined, in many cases, to have sex with someone simply to cheer them up, to heal some emotional sorrow, or to cement a friendship.
Turn-ons: Intellectual stimulation or debate, being needed, natural (but clean) surroundings (such as grass or a lake), showers and other sources of water, thunderstorms, sex talk, sexually assertive partners
Most desired qualities in a sexual partner: Extremely high intelligence, excellent personal hygeine, creative, sexually dominant or sexually aggressive, strong and stoic yet needing the Virgo in someway, humble, reasonable, calm, hard working, responsible, reliable, trustworthy, self-controlled, tactful, fair
Turn-offs: Unclean bodies or clothing, unclean surroundings, small talk (as opposed to deep intellectual exploration), noisy chaotic places, public scenes, emotional scenes, drama, crassness
Least desired qualities in a sexual partner: A lack of intelligence, weak or submissive partners, wishy washy or whiny partners, shallowness, big egos that need constant bolstering, unreliability, irresponsibility, drama queens and kings, a lack of dignity, a lack of self-control
