ok these questions have just been buggin the ever livin shit out of me for so long, so i am hopin if i put this out there that I can get some real and honest answers...
1. why do guys like gettin a fat girls hopes up and just leavin them hangin? I mean come on guys do you just not understand what that does to a woman's self esteem, and then guys can't figure out why girls are always so down on themselves...
2. you are totally pursuing this fat chick, you tell her she's cute, sexy, pretty, hey wanna come meet me words, the girl gets there with hopeful intentions and instead of talking you figure she wouldn't have just come over to talk so i'm gonna bang her even if she is not so hot cause at least i'm getting my needs taken care of?
3. why do guys even use the old ass line "oh i'll call you tomorrow" or in this day and age "i'll text you" when you have no intention of ever calling her back anyway, unless your hard up for a lay?
4. when guys are gettin laid why do they even bother using phrases like " you are so beautiful", or "damn your good", or "oh my god I love your body" i mean come on you are in the process of taking care of your animalistic need for sex, so why fill a girls head with words she will never hear you utter again unless your dick is down her throat?
5. why can a guy be so sweet and seemingly sensitive with a genuine interest in a woman but as soon as he meets someone he knows while out with her it becomes, "oh this is my friend so in so"?
6. why do guys sleep with a fat chick, call her 2 weeks from then when she thinks he has succumbed to the ever deadly screwedmeafatchicknboltedasquickasicoulditis, and say hey i really wanna see you again but can you do me a favor first? and after the favor is done and you've killed yet another soft soul with the love em them lose em action, you think it's a ok to start the process all over again, cause, hey shes fat, i got her wrapped and she'll do whatever i want cause she will never find another guy who would actually date her?
7. If a guy gets laughed at by the "hot chick" (if you've ever experienced this guys, now you feel a little of our pain only ours is times 100 worse) and the simple beauty sees she's second choice and declines his advance, why are the fat chicks considered bottom of the barrel?
8. why do guys say " the first thing i noticed about you is your eyes"...when they are really just look at their tits and ass and making sure there's not too much in between those 2?
9. why is it guys will hit on a girl to beat hell and think damn she's pretty, funny and likes a lot of things that i do but you finally meet her and see she's fat, all the connections you made before with that girl are replaced by "how fast can I dump her?", "I know i'm gettin laid for sure, cause she has no other offers.", and the ever popular, "OMG I cannot run into anyone I know out with her!"
Final Question:
10. Why do guys think that a fat chick is just so hard up for attention and affection that he can think, eh, so she's fat, but in any case i'm gettin laid and out the door faster than you can say I had...?" oh gone already!
Just a little FYI cause i know that manly men think that men who like art have to be gay, and you never really paid much attention in art class except to the cheerleader sittin in front of you, but back in the day a man would never ever consider dating a skinny or thin woman because to him that meant disease, or no love of life. when you look at pics from centuries back the women who were most sought after were thick, curvy, full figured women. I know guys wanna have fun and most women feel the same way we just don't put it out there that bold, but if your looking for a woman with substance, compassion, loyalty, and quite frankly, getting some of the best blow jobs around, look past the OMG I ate a whole cube of cheese today so now i'm fat, tee-hee hee laughing, fu fu drink lovin, bigger than a woolly mammoth ego, rail chicks, and you just might find one of the best friends, life long partners that only lived in your dreams. cause i know even guys have dreams how their lives will end up and who will stand by them steadfast and strong for the long haul.
Ok so 10 questions, i don't think that's too much to ask, please be truthful and leave your answers/questions/comments just so some of us, at least myself, know when to say no, because rejection, cruel words, sex only intentions and big laughs hurt hearts as much sometimes even more than if you just stabbed us in the chest with a dagger to begin with.
