Communitcation what is it? I have been asked several times what communication means to me. To me communication is everything. Without communication whether spoken orally or not at all, by means of simple body gestures, is the key to everything. In a relationship, communication are the embers of the fire, the building blocks that everything else stands upon. The embers are what sparks the fire that grows into a rage of passion and love. The building blocks is what withstands the times of the friendship that grows into the relationships we endear and trust.