One day a kid show up at my door... tall as me blond. Not the best looking kid but definete potential for that manly look later in life. He was my sons friend. Dated my daughter for a couple of weeks. LOL Uh yeah they held hands. Big whoop.
Now the big lug is one of my best friends at 24. He has so much potential but not the smarts of an intellectual. But he has the ability to calm me unlike no other son has. He has endured years of teasing because of his height and lanky walk. A lil hunched over, he never grew into his height. Definetly a lover and not a fighter.
He has made a few mistakes in his life that I can't go into but he will be paying for them forever. All the warnings we gave him, I gave him... I think he finally got the message. Now being too late.
He has spent so much time with me. Drank way to much... Way too much. Would brag about how much he could drink and then get sick. LOL I taught him to slow down so he could enjoy it and not get sick. And that it is not cool to drink like that almost daily. Dumb fuck. LOL but I love him anyway.
He has been a friend thru good times and bad. Discussed EVERYTHING you can imagine with me. LOL Knows most everything about me. When all the other boys wer gone to do their life he is still around. I fell June 1st and he was there to take care of me. even slept with me. LOL Holding a heating pad to my hip so I could sleep. He has also held me when I was so down I could cry... and have. He is soft spoken, quiet. A very gentle giant but not too active. He has an old pickup truck you would think was his woman. I tease him about it all the time but shhhh!!! don't tell him that I love that damn truck. Banged up and beat up it should have been junked years ago. lol Of all my sons is is the most unlike me. Enjoys bars and playing pool. Country music. Yet we click on a weird level. I feel safe with him. Even with the bad decisions he has made. Like I can spend days...he can be around and I am completely happy he is there. Yes he has pissed me off at times. But that is the nature of friends. You come back together-with a stronger bond.
I have seen him grow a foot in eight years. I have seen him care for his Mom and Dad(s). He is a protector I am glad to have in my life.
Love ya kidd. LOL just for you.....
(and the damn broken down truck too)
See ya next weekend at the island. LOL
