I hate the idea my son is gay,
a father confided to me,
nor can I find the words to say
I’m ashamed of his sexuality
It’s just not true I love him less,
a father confided to me,
but nature didn’t provide an anus
to be used other than…naturally
I’ll love him whatever his choice,
a father confided to me,
but he can’t expect me to rejoice
that he has a boyfriend, surely?
True love is unconditional, I said,
whether partner or parent,
sibling or friend…taken as read,
by a humanity heaven sent
It’s easy enough for you to say,
a father confided to me,
you don’t have a son who’s gay,
thinks it’s proud he should be
Of course I’m proud of the lad,
a father confided to me
and since he’s not turned out bad,
I guess it’s thankful I should be
Dads and sons rarely see eye to eye,
a father confided to me,
I dare say, like always, we’ll get by,
let live and…sexuality
I took comfort from our discourse
that my boyfriend will be okay;
his dad might run with dinosaurs
but love would win the day
author: Roger Taber